One of the reason behind broken families of Filipino, is working abroad.
There's a lot of husband and wife being separated. Because of lack of discipline between husband and wife that is working abroad.
Instead of concentrating on their works and family. They concentrate to find someone that filled their hungry with flesh.
Married men, did not think that they have a family. When they are intimately seduce women...which having a good family also. Instead of avoiding this to have contact each other in that place. It seems they are willing to give in and make an extra marital affairs in a distant land.
Married women, also never control their lust to avoid connecting to any men. Most especially foreign men.
I don't understand why there are so many undisciplined husband and wife which is not give the value of family. But the value of their lust instead...
To be fair, I think it is not always the spouse working abroad who gets involved in extramarital affairs. It can also happen that the the spouse that stays behind is the one who has these affairs.
Basically, it is the distance and the state of being apart that opens these people, whether it's the one abroad or the one left behind, to the temptation of getting involved in extramarital affairs.
But the problem is not merely the distance or being apart. I would like to think that there are people out there who remain faithful to their spouses in spite of the distance.
As you said, the problem is the lack of discipline or self-control and values. If only one always keeps in mind their spouse and their family, and concentrates on their work, they should find it in themselves to resist any temptation. There is nothing wrong with socializing or making friends, but one should know where to draw the line.
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