Right of the neglected spouse

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When either of spouse neglecting his or her duties to the conjugal union or either spouse committing acts which tends to bring danger, dishonor, or injury to the other or to the family. The aggrieved party may apply to the court... Art. 72 of the family code

What injury or dishonor contemplated by the article?

This is not economic or financial injury but physical, moral, emotional or psychological

1. If wife spend all her times at the casino, tong-its, mahjong table or having an affairs to other men not her husband...

2. If the husband keeps on drinking alcohol, drugs, and beating his wife or having an affairs to other women

On this cases; the court may admonish or injunction order to the guilty spouse or even threaten him or her with contempt of court if he or she refuse to heed the court order...

"Foolish people don't care if they sin but good people want to be forgiven"

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Rights and obligations between husband and wife

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Under Art. 68 of the family code. It provides the rights and obligation of husband and wife that must prosper.

The husband and wife are oblige to live together, observe mutual love, respect and fidelity, and render mutual help and support.

Duty to live together

The duty to live together includes cohabitation or consurtium and sexual intercourse. The wife may refuse to have sexual intercourse with the husband if he resort to abnormal or perverse practices.

If the husband forces the wife to have sexual intercourse with him against her will, he maybe charged with coercion.

Duty to observe mutual love, respect and fidelity

These duties are personal to the spouses and go into their intimate relations, so that they must be performed voluntarily by them. However, some consequences of such duties are the following:

The unfaithful spouse may be charged criminally with adultery in the case of the wife or of concubinage in the case of the husband.

If one of the spouse commits acts which tend to bring the danger, dishonor, or injury to the other, the aggrieved spouse may apply to the court for relief...

"Those who bring trouble on their families will have nothing at the end"

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A wife was pregnant by another man

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Under the family code; when a wife was pregnant by another man. The family code distinguished as a serious fraud. Because the wife breaking the essence of marriage. Where the most important objects of marriage is procreation of children, and "a husband has the right to require that his wife shall not bear to his bed aliens to his blood and lineage"

But when the wife is already pregnant at the time of the marriage. The husband can no longer invoke fraud as the case maybe.

The fact that the wife was formerly a prostitute or has delivered a child by another man before her marriage does not constitute fraud and a ground for annulment of marriage...for it is not included in Art. 46 paragraph 2.

It is advisable for the husband to investigated his wife's background before he married her

Under Art. 46 of the family code

"A good man is hard to find"

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Kinds of Bigamous Marriages

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There are two kinds of bigamous marriages namely:

1. The void bigamous marriage, which is contracted by a person during the subsitence of his or her previous marriage. Here, the good faith of the party who marries again is immaterial; the second marriage would still be void.

On the other hand, the person who marries again in bad faith is even criminally liable for bigamy; and

2. The voidable bigamous marriage, which is contracted by a person whose spouse has been absent for four consecutive years or two years, said person having well-founded belief that his or her spouse was already dead, and after having the latter judicially declared presumptively dead in a summary proceeding as provided by law

For not criminally liable at the second paragraph. The present spouse must first ask for a declaration of presumptive of death of the absent spouse in order not to be guilty of bigammy in case he or she marries again.

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Understanding declaration of absolute nullity

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In the Philippines, divorce is a heated arguments in congress. But many are opposed about the passage of the bills, due to public policy concern and morality. Even do divorce is not allow in the Philippines, there's a law concerning marriage settlement. This law is under the family which the purpose is to strengthen family relation and protect the family and it's concern.

But couples want to distract the sanctity of marriage and still want to get involve into an illicit relationship to others not their wife or their husband and when they caught doing such adulterous and concubine acts. To justify their wrong doing, they strongly denies such allegation.

Many couples are suffered physically and mentally abuse from their husband or wives who corrupt their innocent minds.

Due to those events. law makers set a remedy to counter divorce. The remedy for those irreconcilable quarrels, abuse, or in effect of psychological incapacity. Husband any wife may file a legal separation if they want to cool off or file a declaration of absolute nullity.

Under art. 37 of the Family code, set the rules: The action or defense for the declaration of absolute nullity of a marriage shall not prescribe. However, in the case of marriage celebration before the effectivity of this code and falling under Art. 36, such actions or defense prescribe in ten years after this code shall have taken effect.

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Marriage are Void for reasons of Public Policy

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Before we continue to this article. Need to clarify first what is public policy means - Public policy a principle that no person or government official can legally perform an act that tends to injure the public.
This policy applies under art. 38 of the family code. Where the following marriages shall be void from the beginning for reasons of public policy:

1. Between collateral blood relatives, whether legitimate or illegitimate, up to the fourth civil degree;

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Incestuous Marriages are Void from the beginning

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Marriages between the following are incestuous and void from the beginning, whether the relationship between the parties are legitimate or illegitimate:

1. Between Ascendants and descentants of any degree: and

2. Between brothers and sisters, whether of the full-or half-blood.

Incestuous marriages are universally or almost universally considered immoral and void as they contravene human nature, degrade the family, and offend decency and morals...

"Those bring trouble on their families will have nothing at the end"

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Matrimonial Consent

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Under Art. 36 Of the Family Code; A marriage by any party who, at the time of the celebration, was psychologically incapacitated to comply with the essential marital obligations of marriage, shall likewise be void even if such incapacity becomes manifest only after its solemnization.

To be cleared, this provision is apply for those contracting parties and the solemnizing officer or authorities.

The purpose is to make sure the contracting parties has complete discretionary judgment concerning the essential matrimonial rights and obligation to be mutually accepted. Because it is useless for both parties to engage in a relationship which lack of sufficient knowledge and cannot perform the essentials obligation of husband and wife.

"Prob. 11: 29 Those who bring trouble on their families will have nothing at the end."

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Void and Voidable Marriages

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This article clarifies marriages which is not valid due to the following reasons:

1. Contract by parties below 18 years of ages.

2. Solemnized by person with no authority

3. Solemnized without a Marriages License

4. Bigamous or Polygamous Marriage

5. Contracted through mistake of one party as to identity of the other

Source Art. 35 of the Family Code of the Philippines

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Exceptional Marriage

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This refers to "marriages exempt from the license requirement" which provide under Art. 27 of the Family Code...says: In case either or both of the contracting parties are at the point of death, the marriage maybe solemnized without the necessity of marriage license and shall remain valid even if the ailing party subsequently survives.

Articulo Mortis

The marriage referred to in this Article is the marriage in articulo mortis; i.e., or both of the contracting parties are dying or at the point of death. In such case, there is no need for marriage license because obviously, the dying party would already be dead by the time the license is issued.

What happens if the parties are survives from the point of death?

Under Art. 72 of the civil code, which is the source of the article. Provides that the marriage remains valid even if the ailing or dying party survives or does not dies.

"Corinthian 11:7 A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man."

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Foreign Marriages of Filipinos

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Under this Articles provide that all marriages solemnized outside the Philippines in accordance with laws in force in the country where they were solemnized and valid there as such, shall also be valid in this country (Philippines), except those prohibited under art.35, 36, 37 and 38 of the code.

Where a marriage between a Filipino citizen and a foreigner is validly celebrated and a divorce is thereafter validly obtained abroad by the alien spouse capacitating him or her to remarry, the Filipino spouse shall likewise have capacity to remarry under Philippines law..E.O No. 227 dated July 17, 1987...art. 26

This rule applies lex loci celebrationis

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Foreigner to get marriage in the Philippines

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This is a question arise when I have a conversation with someone in facebook. So I prefer to publicly details about it. Under Art. 21. of the family code...state that when either or both of the contracting parties are citizens of a foreign country, it shall be necessary for them before a marriage license can be obtained, to submit a certificate of legal capacity to contract marriage, issued by their respective diplomatic or consular officials...

Stateless person or refugees from other countries shall in lieu of the certificate of legal capacity herein required, submit an affidavit stating the circumstances showing such capacity to contract marriage...

1. The capacity of a foreigner to get married in the Philippines is governed by his national law, a foreign law, so that our government offices and courts cannot take judicial notice of said law.

Hence, if he applies for a marriage license to be able to get married in the Philippines, he is required to present a certificate of legal capacity to contract marriage from the embassy or consular office of his country in the Philippines, since they are one know the national law of said foreign and whether he has capacity to marry under the law...

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Requirement for marriage if both parties previously married

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There are cases that some persons get marriage twice due to some reason. In this particular cases; the law provide the requirements to be completed before the contracting parties to get marriage.

Under Art. 13., of the code. In case either of the contracting parties has been previously married, the applicant shall be required to furnish, instead of the birth or baptismal certificate in the last preceding article, the death certificate of the deceased spouse or judicial decree of the absolute divorce, or the judicial decree of annulment or declaration of nullity of his or her previous marriage. In case the death certificate cannot be secured, the party shall make an affidavit setting forth this circumstances and his or her actual civil status and the name and date of death of the deceased spouse

If the death certificate of one's spouse cannot be presented. The parties can execute an affidavit stating the facts of the death of his or her spouse.

If the applicant has had a marriage that had been annulled or declared null and void. He or she must present the judicial decision of the court.

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Requirements for the Application of Marriage License

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Under Art. 11 of the family code. Each of the contracting parties shall file separately a sworn application for such license with the proper local civil registrar which specify the following:

1. Full name of the contracting party;

2. Birth place;

3. Age and date of birth;

4. Civil status;

5. If the previously married, how, when and where the previous marriage was dissolved or annuled;

6. Present residence and citizenship;

7. Degree of relationship of the contracting parties

8. Full name, residence and citizenship of the Father;

9. Full name, residence and citizenship of the Mother; and

10. Full name, residence and citizenship of the guardian or person having charge, in case the contracting party has neither father not mother and is under the age of twenty-one years.

The application for marriage license is required to be under oath so that the applicants would tell the truth in their applications. If they lie regarding any detail therein, they will be committing perjury as punishable by law.

Any party who give wrong information would civilly, criminally, and administratively liable.

If the local civil registrar, knowing the falsity of the information in the applications, still issues the license he/she shall be civilly, criminally, and administratively liable, but marriage solemnized pursuant to said license will still valid.

The civil registrar should be careful on this matter even if he/she require to investigate the said application.

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Marriages between Filipino citizens abroad

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Those Filipino citizens abroad who want to get marriage are under art. 10. Provide that: Marriage between Filipino citizens abroad may be solemnized by a consul-general, consul, vice consul of the Republic of the Philippines. The issuance of the marriage license and the duties of the local civil registrar and of the solemnizing officer with regard to the celebration of marriage shall performed by the said consular official.

By "Filipino citizens abroad" may mean Filipinos permanently residing abroad or who are mere transient or vacationist there.

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The Issuance of Marriage License

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Under Art. 9. A marriage license shall be issued the local civil registrar of the city or municipality where either contracting party habitually resides, except in marriage where no license is required in accordance with law...

This provision is useful in small communities where the people know one another, because the names of the applicants for marriage license are posted by the local civil registrar under Art. 17 of the code, and any one who knows of an impediment to an intended marriage may inform him about it.

The violation of this provision will not, however invalidate the marriage license, but the party who falsified his or her application for marriage license by stating that he or she is a resident of the place where the license was applied for , is criminally liable

The solemnizing officer is not required to investigate whether or not the license was issued in the place required by law

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Public Solemnization Is Required

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The provision of the code under Art. 8. The marriage shall be solemnized publicly in the chambers of the judge or in open court, in the church, chapel or temple or in the office of consul-general, consul or vice consul as the case maybe, and not elsewhere, except in the marriage contracted at the point of death or in remote places in accordance with article 29 of the code or in where both of the parties request the solemnizing officer in writing in which case the marriage maybe solemnized at a house or place designated by them in a sworn statement to that effect

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List of Persons Authorized to Solemnize Marriage

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Art. 7 of the Family code says: Marriage maybe solemnize by:

1. Any incumbent member of the judiciary within the court's jurisdiction

2. Any priest, rabbi, imam, or minister of any church or religious sect duly authorized by his church or religious sect and registered with the civil registrar general, acting within the limits of the written authority granted him by this church or religious sect and provided that at least one of the contracting parties belongs to the solemnizing officer's church or religious sect;

3. Any ship captain or airplane chief only in the cases mention in Art. 31

4. Any military commander of a unit to which a chaplain is assigned, in the absence of the latter, during the military operation, likewise only in the cases mentioned in Art. 32

5. Any consul-general, consul or vice consul in the case provided in Art.10

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Appearance of the contracting parties to the solemnizing officer necessary

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Under Art. 6. of the family code: No prescribe form or religious rite for the solemnization of the marriage is required. It shall be necessary, however, for the contracting parties to appear personally before the solemnizing officer and declare in the presence of not less than two witness of legal age that they take each other as husband and wife. This declaration shall be contained in the marriage certificate which shall be signed by the contracting parties and their witnesses and attested by the solemnizing officer.

In case of marriage Articulo motis, when the party at the point of death is unable to sign the marriage certificate, it shall be sufficient for one of the witnesses to the marriage to write the name of the said party, which fact shall be attested by the solemnizing officer...

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Minimum Ages to Contract Marriage

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Under Ar. 5. The minimum requirement to enter into marriage are as follows: Any male or female of the age eighteen years or upwards not under any impediments mentioned in Articles 37 and 38, may contract marriage.

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Marriage Void Ab Initio and Voidable Marriage

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Under Art. 4. of the Family Code of the Philippines state; The absence of any of the essential or formal requisites shall render that marriage void ab initio, except as stated in art. 35(2)

A defect in any of the essential requisites shall render the marriage voidable as provided in art. 45

An irregularity in the formal requisites shall not affect the validity of the marriage but the party or parties responsible for the irregularity shall be civilly, criminally and administrative liable.

Example of the void marriages because of the absence of essential requisites;:

1. A marriage between a 14-year old girl and 16-year old boy, eve if both have parental consent, since under Art. 5 of the code, the minimum for marriage is 18.

2. A marriage between a boy of 18 and girl of 16, both with parental consent. The girl here still has no legal capacity to get married.

3. A marriage between two girls, or between two boys: Parties of the same sex cannot get married.

4. A marriage between parties who have legal impediment to get married under Arts. 37 and 38 of the code, like first cousins.

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Formal Requisite of Marriage

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Under Art. 3. of the Family code, state the formal requisite of marriage are:
1. Authority of the Solemnizing Officer;
2. A valid marriage license except in the cases provided for in Chapter 2 of this Title; and
3. A marriage ceremony which takes place with the appearance of the contracting parties before the solemnizing officer and their personal declaration that they take each other as husband and wife in the presence of not less than two witnesses of the legal age.

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Essential Requisites of Marriage

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Under Article 2. of the Family Code.

No Shall be valid, unless these essential requisite are present:

1. Legal capacity of the contracting parties who must be male and female; and

2. Consent freely given in the presence of the solemnizing officer

Legal Capacity must be male and a female or of different sexes, a requisite that is dictated by biological law, since procreation cannot be realized by two person of the same sex. If through deceit or fraud, a marriage celebrated between two males or two females, therefore, the marriage is void and inexistent, and party guilty of fraud is liable to pay the other damages.

Consent of the Contracting Parties must be the consent of the contracting parties not the consent of the parents.

And the parties must personally appear before the solemnizing officer during the marriage, which requirement exclude "common law marriage" (parties just live together as husband and wife without the celebration of marriage between them) Particularly know as "live in".

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POST YOUR COMMENTS, QUESTIONS, ANSWER

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This place where you post questions, comments and answer. Please share your opinion regarding Domestic Helpers.

Ask any questions for relevant topics which affect domestic helper lifestyle abroad. Marriage problem, love affair problem, and any legal matters which affect family life...

Just click on "NO COMMENT/COMMENTS" to post

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New Domestic Helper Requirements for Abroad

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There is new REQUIREMENTS FOR DOMESTIC HELPERS TO GO ABROAD. This requirements will standardize the qualification of those who aspiring to work as Domestic Helper abroad. This will uplift the quality and help them for better salary.

These are;

1. TESDA training

This is not a new requirements for OCW's(overseas contract workers, these are skilled workers. Like; welders,canpenters,laborer,electricians, etc.)

But the requirements for Domestic Helpers is new. which is now required for them to take training at TESDA (Technical Education Skills and Development Authority). This is applicable to all whether new, former Domestic Helper, or returning Domestic Helper to their employer.

2. PDOS (Pre-Departure Orientation Seminars)

This requirements is not new but for those who work as Domestic Helpers is now required for them to have it.

3. OWWA training

The Overseas Worker Welfare Administration is also set requirements. This is requiring all Domestic Helpers to take training in six (6) days. For language proficiency depending on the language being used to which country they go.

Take Note:

For those agency base, domestic helper. This is required for them before all their papers to be process. Singapore is one of the agency base system. Because when they finished their contract they need to renew it to their agency and pay again depending on the procedures and agreement to the employers...

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REQUISITE OF MARRIAGE in the Philippines

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Under Article 1. of this code state the legal requisite of marriage. Which is;
Marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman enter into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life.

Summary:
1. Marriage is a "Special" contract.
2. It is a "Permanent" union
3. A union is "between a man and a woman".
4. The union must be "enter into in accordance with law."
5. The purpose of the marriage is "the establishment of conjugal and family life."

This is the basic requisite of marriage that every person should know before deciding to get marriage

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Foreign male engage to a married domestic helper

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I don't know why most foreign male, did not investigate if the Filipina Domestic Helper they engage with is married or not?

These foreign male that engage into a relationship with those Filipina Domestic Helper in Singapore, which is married don't think about family values. But they only think to have sexual relationship to those married domestic helper.

We don't blame those foreign male. Because those domestic helper lure them to make a mortal sin and do something which is against their husband. They only think about their sexual desire and not think about sin...they are committed and a shameful things to their children and family.

I wish that foreign male did not abuse their parts for not taking for granted to the weakness of those Filipina maid which after about money and sex.

They should think about the family to be broken...Domestic helper should respect themselves in that way. I am not referring to all Domestic helper but there are some which is not doing this acts of evil...

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Singapore Domestic Helper Expose

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According to my reliable source. The Ministry of Manpower in Singapore, required every Filipina Domestic Helper to have a regular HIV and pregnancy check up...every six months.

I wonder why those Domestic Helper, need pregnancy and HIV check up. The source said that many Domestic Helper are involve in prostitution even if they work as Domestic Helper and work part time as prostitute and or having an affairs to someone else.

This is the reason why the Ministry of Manpower, required them to have a regular check up to avoid more HIV positive in that country. If they found those domestic helpers having this kind of illness or they are pregnant they will be force to deport back to their respective countries...

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Foreign male cause of Filipino Family to be broken home

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One of the reason for Filipino Family to be broken home is the involvement of Foreign male. Many Filipina Domestic Helper mostly in Singapore...have intimate relationship with foreigners even if they have husband in the Philippines.

Most of the Filipina Domestic Helper in Singapore are prone to an intimate relationship to foreign male. Believing that they will get financial stability that foreign male gave to them or pay to them in return.

According to my reliable source. Filipina Domestic Helper in Singapore, are always in the bar to hunt foreigners. If they find foreign male and be their boyfriend...that the case they think to divorce their husband in the Philippines. They don't know that they sacrifices their families in that particular love of money and lust.

I don't know why those foriegn males. Did not think the consequences they did for the family of that Domestic Helper. They don't investigate if the woman is married or not? The important thing to them is to release their sexual urges to that Filipina domestic helper and same also to that Domestic Helper...not feeling guilty on what she did. The important thing for her is money and sex...

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Cause of Filipino family to be broken home

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One of the reason behind broken families of Filipino, is working abroad.

There's a lot of husband and wife being separated. Because of lack of discipline between husband and wife that is working abroad.

Instead of concentrating on their works and family. They concentrate to find someone that filled their hungry with flesh.

Married men, did not think that they have a family. When they are intimately seduce women...which having a good family also. Instead of avoiding this to have contact each other in that place. It seems they are willing to give in and make an extra marital affairs in a distant land.

Married women, also never control their lust to avoid connecting to any men. Most especially foreign men.

I don't understand why there are so many undisciplined husband and wife which is not give the value of family. But the value of their lust instead...

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Cause of broken home

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There are many cause of broken home or broken family which affect the behavior of the kids. Broken home is not an easy part of every children that being a victim on this particular misunderstanding between husband and wife.

I listed some of my observation that causes families of broken home. This is reality that families of the world should be avoided and makes the family happy together.

1. Miscommunication or lack of communication

* Lack of communication between husband and wife, will result to cool the relationship that must be warm and best.

2. Adultery

* This particular crimes will committed by some wives in particular. They are flirting to someone that is not their husband. They have intercourse to someone which they prefer fulfilling their hungry in sex. They never think about love but always think about lust...

3. Concubinage

* Almost all the husband, will cheated their wives with no reasons. I don't know why they want to have sex with someone other than their wives?

4. Alcoholism and Drug addictions

5. Love of money

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Domestic Helper Work Abroad

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This about the jobs of Domestic Helper Abroad. It really hard to think that their works is very difficult but because of their choice of work. They even don't mind how hard it is...because they give strength by their family.

They are cleaning the house of their employer, the kitchen, comfort room, bath room and all the corners of the house.

Other's are caring babies and kids of their employers, caring of dog, and others. Some are preparing for foods and so on.

It's hard to be a Domestic Helper but they should patiently doing it. In behalf of their family and loves one. They sacrifice everything to see their family to be provided with education, shelters and foods...

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Domestic Helper Problem Abroad

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There are many problems of Filipina Domestic Helper Abroad, that never noted by the Philippine government.

There are many complains in different consular office all over the world. But much of the embassy officials seems to in favor with those employer that abused them.

Embassy officials really useless in handling many cases of Filipino Domestic Helpers. Why Are they employed in that position if they cannot help? What is the used of the consular office in different part of the world, if those government officials did not perform their duties and responsibilities?

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See if this is your wife abroad

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Domestic Helper in different countries will have various walks of life, on their off day. These are the following:

DH number 1 - playing card

Tong-it (playing card) - is one of the activities of some domestic helper abroad to amuse themselves. This is good to please themselves to avoid being homesick and miss their family.

DH number 2 - Going to recreational activities

Other DH are in the place of where Filipina, seeing each other to skim news about their family and love ones. The bitter here, are skimming news which is not true that maybe mess up their relationship as husband and wife.

DH number 3 - Going to Disco

Other DH were going to disco pub. Where they dance and drink alcohol to foreigners. This is not good for those domestic helper with husband. Because it ended at the motel for sex...

DH number 4 - In the lap of their lover

Other will be found on the lap of their lover. This is also one of the behavior of those DH abroad. Thier husband believed...that they don't do anything that is against in the eyes of man and God.

Believed that their wife is trustworthy and faithful to their relationship as husband and wife. Besides that trust. Their wife has lovers there and live as husband and wife.

Some domestic helper really has a lover abroad. This is true activity of some DH not only in Singapore but also in different country...

DH number 5 - Going to Religious activities

Others are involved in religious activities. This is one of the best things that domestic helper do to avoid anything that encourage them to commit utterly wrong with their husband.

DH number 6 - In front of computer

Other are found in the computer or internet shop, to chat and makes friend. This is good but sometimes they will be cheated and do something impossible which might be sinful to their husband. They can also found guys here that cheated them and ask them to have sex...

DH number 7 - Part timer

Others are spending their time to have a part time jobs, that let them to earn extra cash. Doing house hold work and others...But some DH having a part time jobs as sex workers by accepting short time or sell their self for sex.

According to our source. This trade happen in Singapore, done by some domestic helper.

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My wife is prosti in Singapore

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FACE TO FACE

I watch one of the TV program telecast by TV5 a TV channel network located in Novaliches, Quezon City.

This TV program is hosted by Amy Perez, a well known showbiz personalities.

They talk about married life and family. Where the husband accused his wife cheated him. The serious things is that accused his wife being a prostitute in Singapore.

Siblings are hated to their Mother. This is due to negligence of their mother. The love, support that give them a shameful acts to their neighbor.

In other words. An acts of cheating is the reason behind their problems. Cheater wife is a serious problem. It will not detect immediately because women is better than men to hide secret...

This is not my points here. The center of this articles is prostitution. I heard something about prostitution which some Domestic Helper in Singapore are involved. We cannot attest the validity of this rumors. But we hope this issue will be a lesson for those Domestic Helper in Singapore. Not only Singapore, but DH in different countries. To preserved the sanctity of their marriage...and don't cheat their husband or wife.

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DH Love story and disappointment (no divorce)

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There are many friends online being a domestic helper from different countries. They tell some of their love stories and ask with my opinion regarding issues involving love affairs...

Some of them shared their love life abroad.

There is a domestic helper that I chatted online. She tell me something about her relationship into a person she loves.

She is 46 years old and still single. She tell me that she met the guy online. This guy is one of her ex-boy friend since they are 17 and 21 years old. The guy left her with no reason and she left empty and cried at that time she did not find the guy.

Now, she find the guy with three kids. The guy courted her again and tell something about his family. The guy tell her that he is separated with his wife ten years ago now...

The guy ask to her get marriage. She said I will...but she doubt if the guy really free to get marriage again. Until she found out that this man still married to his called separated wife...she confronted the guy and said. "I will divorce my wife when we arrive in the US".

The domestic helper now ask my opinion about the divorce issue. She ask me if the guy divorce his wife in the United State is free to remarried again in the Philippines. I answer him "no". Because there is no divorce in the Philippines...

The law in the United State, did not apply in the Philippines. I said "he still marriage in the Philippines and there is nor nullification being happen". You will be charge of bigamy and acts of adultery if you agree with his plan...

Till she found out that the guy cheated her. Because the guy have also another mistress aside from her.

Domestic Helper should not always agree for anything that man offer to them. This might be a lesson for them not go after sweet words...because most men abroad also is married and always reason out about their family life or their wife to deceived someone...

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Domestic Helper in Saudi Arabia

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This is a real story of one of the Domestic Helper in Saudi Arabia. I don't want to mention the name of the DH to protect her privacy...

She have five (5) children and all of them are already old. She and her husband agree to go abroad for the betterment of the family and for the children to continue their education in high school and college.

But going to abroad did not make good to her family. She is tempted and to commit sin to her husband. She cheated her husband and while in Saudi. One of her fellow saw her with someone and the issue was feed to her husband in the Philippines.

Her husband did not believed about the rumors until she's going back home pregnant and birth a baby. Her husband revenge for that matter and take a mistress also. Now, her family is broken up and one of her kids always saying "He already dead" and if one his family interfere in what he do...he will kill them.

This really a sad story. But this is real...I always tried to intervene with the kid for not thinking about harsh things and do away from doing any crimes someday...

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Video Scandal Singapore profiles

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This video is courtesy of youtube and aljazeera.

This is a documentary files of Aljazeera, where the truth about Singapore Sex trade. There are many foreign sex workers which according to reliable source. They coming from different places like China, Indonesia, Thailand, Vietnam and Most of All Philippines...

The case of those Filipina Sex Workers is something different. There are humors that most of the Filipina Domestic Helpers are working part time as sex workers.

This maybe the reason why Singapore, government required Filipina Domestic Helpers to be check up regularly for HIV and pregnancy test...

The center of Prostitution in Singapore, Geylang

This place where foreign male pick up girls who gives short pleasure. Some of those prostitute are coming from the Philippines. They are not sex workers there but a domestic helper at day-off time. But Singaporean, government strict employer not to give domestic helpers to have a week day-off to protect them to engage in this business.

But there are domestic helper who engaging into this business even if they their off is once a month. There are some domestic helper who is pregnant not on their husband but to other guys who are being their customers. WATCH and judge them for what they did...Not blame due to lower salary of DH there...

The street meat who are always waiting for customers. Offered a short time of pleasure

They sell their self as a bargain. They are not Singaporean, but coming from different nationalities in Asia, like; Philippines, Malaysia, Thailand, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh, China, Indonesia and even India...

Prostitute fall in line along the street to sell meat and give satisfaction for those male who wish short pleasure and cheat their wives...

"preserved the values of family and love your wives better than the most precious stones on earth"

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