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Monday, May 30, 2011

Foreign male cause of Filipino Family to be broken home

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One of the reason for Filipino Family to be broken home is the involvement of Foreign male. Many Filipina Domestic Helper mostly in Singapore...have intimate relationship with foreigners even if they have husband in the Philippines.


Most of the Filipina Domestic Helper in Singapore are prone to an intimate relationship to foreign male. Believing that they will get financial stability that foreign male gave to them or pay to them in return.

According to my reliable source. Filipina Domestic Helper in Singapore, are always in the bar to hunt foreigners. If they find foreign male and be their boyfriend...that the case they think to divorce their husband in the Philippines. They don't know that they sacrifices their families in that particular love of money and lust.

I don't know why those foriegn males. Did not think the consequences they did for the family of that Domestic Helper. They don't investigate if the woman is married or not? The important thing to them is to release their sexual urges to that Filipina domestic helper and same also to that Domestic Helper...not feeling guilty on what she did. The important thing for her is money and sex...

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1 comments:

Hmm...

Given the situation you mentioned, wherein the Filipina DH goes to the bar and actually 'hunts' for foreign males to become their boyfriend, in the hopes that they will get 'financial stability' in the end... this in spite of the fact that they are married... and then when they find a boyfriend, they divorce their husband back home... isn't it then the fault of the woman?

If the foreign male knew also that the woman is married, then he is equally at fault.
But if he did not know... if the woman did not tell him, maybe even deliberately, then I think his part is forgivable...

Generally, when I meet someone, the first assumption is that whatever that person tells me is true. It is only if/when I sense something is amiss that I start to doubt.

So say for example I am a foreign male, and I meet this beautiful Filipina. If I ask her if she is married, and she answers no. I do not think I am obliged at that moment to 'investigate' if she really is married or not. I asked her and she said no. That is enough. Isn't it only respect for her that I do not jump to assume she is lying?
However, if along the course of our talk, etc... I sense that she might have been lying about that, that is the time I will try to find out more... and if I do find out that she is married, then I should know the right thing to do...

My point is: the foreign male may or may not be at fault, depending on whether he knows if the woman is married or not.
But either way, the woman is definitely at fault, because she knows she is married, she is deliberately doing something she should not do, betraying the trust of her husband at home, and maybe even deceiving the foreigner she hooked to be her boyfriend...

As mentioned in the comments in your previous posts, the problem is a lack of discipline or self-control and values, and a disregard for the husband and the family. And also... if the woman is willing to do this for money?... maybe also a lack of self-respect.

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