A blog describe the Filipina Domestic Helper lifestyle abroad

Show sacrifices with their families. They are called modern day heroes. But some of them give shame to their family and country. The purpose of this blog is to strengthen the family ties. Detailed family laws to learn basic obligation of couples as guide for better relationship of marriage. Which is a special contract, permanent union, enter into in accordance with law

Prob.12:4 A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Right of the neglected spouse

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When either of spouse neglecting his or her duties to the conjugal union or either spouse committing acts which tends to bring danger, dishonor, or injury to the other or to the family. The aggrieved party may apply to the court... Art. 72 of the family codeWhat injury or dishonor contemplated by the article?This is not economic or financial injury but physical, moral, emotional or psychological1....

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Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Rights and obligations between husband and wife

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Under Art. 68 of the family code. It provides the rights and obligation of husband and wife that must prosper.The husband and wife are oblige to live together, observe mutual love, respect and fidelity, and render mutual help and support.Duty to live togetherThe duty to live together includes cohabitation or consurtium and sexual intercourse. The wife may refuse to have sexual intercourse with the...

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Monday, August 15, 2011

A wife was pregnant by another man

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Under the family code; when a wife was pregnant by another man. The family code distinguished as a serious fraud. Because the wife breaking the essence of marriage. Where the most important objects of marriage is procreation of children, and "a husband has the right to require that his wife shall not bear to his bed aliens to his blood and lineage" But when the wife is already pregnant at the time...

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Monday, July 11, 2011

Kinds of Bigamous Marriages

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There are two kinds of bigamous marriages namely:1. The void bigamous marriage, which is contracted by a person during the subsitence of his or her previous marriage. Here, the good faith of the party who marries again is immaterial; the second marriage would still be void.On the other hand, the person who marries again in bad faith is even criminally liable for bigamy; and2. The voidable bigamous...

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Saturday, July 9, 2011

Understanding declaration of absolute nullity

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In the Philippines, divorce is a heated arguments in congress. But many are opposed about the passage of the bills, due to public policy concern and morality. Even do divorce is not allow in the Philippines, there's a law concerning marriage settlement. This law is under the family which the purpose is to strengthen family relation and protect the family and it's concern.But couples want to distract...

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Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Marriage are Void for reasons of Public Policy

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Before we continue to this article. Need to clarify first what is public policy means - Public policy a principle that no person or government official can legally perform an act that tends to injure the public.This policy applies under art. 38 of the family code. Where the following marriages shall be void from the beginning for reasons of public policy:1. Between collateral blood relatives, whether...

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Sunday, July 3, 2011

Incestuous Marriages are Void from the beginning

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Marriages between the following are incestuous and void from the beginning, whether the relationship between the parties are legitimate or illegitimate:1. Between Ascendants and descentants of any degree: and2. Between brothers and sisters, whether of the full-or half-blood.Incestuous marriages are universally or almost universally considered immoral and void as they contravene human nature, degrade...

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Saturday, July 2, 2011

Matrimonial Consent

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Under Art. 36 Of the Family Code; A marriage by any party who, at the time of the celebration, was psychologically incapacitated to comply with the essential marital obligations of marriage, shall likewise be void even if such incapacity becomes manifest only after its solemnization.To be cleared, this provision is apply for those contracting parties and the solemnizing officer or authorities. The...

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Friday, July 1, 2011

Void and Voidable Marriages

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This article clarifies marriages which is not valid due to the following reasons: 1. Contract by parties below 18 years of ages.2. Solemnized by person with no authority3. Solemnized without a Marriages License4. Bigamous or Polygamous Marriage5. Contracted through mistake of one party as to identity of the otherSource Art. 35 of the Family Code of the Philippi...

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Thursday, June 30, 2011

Exceptional Marriage

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This refers to "marriages exempt from the license requirement" which provide under Art. 27 of the Family Code...says: In case either or both of the contracting parties are at the point of death, the marriage maybe solemnized without the necessity of marriage license and shall remain valid even if the ailing party subsequently survives.Articulo MortisThe marriage referred to in this Article is the...

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Monday, June 27, 2011

Foreign Marriages of Filipinos

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Under this Articles provide that all marriages solemnized outside the Philippines in accordance with laws in force in the country where they were solemnized and valid there as such, shall also be valid in this country (Philippines), except those prohibited under art.35, 36, 37 and 38 of the code.Where a marriage between a Filipino citizen and a foreigner is validly celebrated and a divorce is thereafter...

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Saturday, June 25, 2011

Foreigner to get marriage in the Philippines

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This is a question arise when I have a conversation with someone in facebook. So I prefer to publicly details about it. Under Art. 21. of the family code...state that when either or both of the contracting parties are citizens of a foreign country, it shall be necessary for them before a marriage license can be obtained, to submit a certificate of legal capacity to contract marriage, issued by their...

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Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Requirement for marriage if both parties previously married

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There are cases that some persons get marriage twice due to some reason. In this particular cases; the law provide the requirements to be completed before the contracting parties to get marriage. Under Art. 13., of the code. In case either of the contracting parties has been previously married, the applicant shall be required to furnish, instead of the birth or baptismal certificate in the last preceding...

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Sunday, June 19, 2011

Requirements for the Application of Marriage License

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Under Art. 11 of the family code. Each of the contracting parties shall file separately a sworn application for such license with the proper local civil registrar which specify the following:1. Full name of the contracting party;2. Birth place;3. Age and date of birth;4. Civil status;5. If the previously married, how, when and where the previous marriage was dissolved or annuled;6. Present residence...

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Saturday, June 18, 2011

Marriages between Filipino citizens abroad

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Those Filipino citizens abroad who want to get marriage are under art. 10. Provide that: Marriage between Filipino citizens abroad may be solemnized by a consul-general, consul, vice consul of the Republic of the Philippines. The issuance of the marriage license and the duties of the local civil registrar and of the solemnizing officer with regard to the celebration of marriage shall performed by...

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Friday, June 17, 2011

The Issuance of Marriage License

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Under Art. 9. A marriage license shall be issued the local civil registrar of the city or municipality where either contracting party habitually resides, except in marriage where no license is required in accordance with law...This provision is useful in small communities where the people know one another, because the names of the applicants for marriage license are posted by the local civil registrar...

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Public Solemnization Is Required

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The provision of the code under Art. 8. The marriage shall be solemnized publicly in the chambers of the judge or in open court, in the church, chapel or temple or in the office of consul-general, consul or vice consul as the case maybe, and not elsewhere, except in the marriage contracted at the point of death or in remote places in accordance with article 29 of the code or in where both of the parties...

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Thursday, June 16, 2011

List of Persons Authorized to Solemnize Marriage

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Art. 7 of the Family code says: Marriage maybe solemnize by:1. Any incumbent member of the judiciary within the court's jurisdiction2. Any priest, rabbi, imam, or minister of any church or religious sect duly authorized by his church or religious sect and registered with the civil registrar general, acting within the limits of the written authority granted him by this church or religious sect and...

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Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Appearance of the contracting parties to the solemnizing officer necessary

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Under Art. 6. of the family code: No prescribe form or religious rite for the solemnization of the marriage is required. It shall be necessary, however, for the contracting parties to appear personally before the solemnizing officer and declare in the presence of not less than two witness of legal age that they take each other as husband and wife. This declaration shall be contained in the marriage...

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Monday, June 13, 2011

Minimum Ages to Contract Marriage

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Under Ar. 5. The minimum requirement to enter into marriage are as follows: Any male or female of the age eighteen years or upwards not under any impediments mentioned in Articles 37 and 38, may contract marria...

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Marriage Void Ab Initio and Voidable Marriage

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Under Art. 4. of the Family Code of the Philippines state; The absence of any of the essential or formal requisites shall render that marriage void ab initio, except as stated in art. 35(2)A defect in any of the essential requisites shall render the marriage voidable as provided in art. 45An irregularity in the formal requisites shall not affect the validity of the marriage but the party or parties...

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Thursday, June 9, 2011

Formal Requisite of Marriage

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Under Art. 3. of the Family code, state the formal requisite of marriage are:1. Authority of the Solemnizing Officer;2. A valid marriage license except in the cases provided for in Chapter 2 of this Title; and3. A marriage ceremony which takes place with the appearance of the contracting parties before the solemnizing officer and their personal declaration that they take each other as husband and...

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Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Essential Requisites of Marriage

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Under Article 2. of the Family Code.No Shall be valid, unless these essential requisite are present:1. Legal capacity of the contracting parties who must be male and female; and2. Consent freely given in the presence of the solemnizing officerLegal Capacity must be male and a female or of different sexes, a requisite that is dictated by biological law, since procreation cannot be realized by two...

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Tuesday, June 7, 2011

POST YOUR COMMENTS, QUESTIONS, ANSWER

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This place where you post questions, comments and answer. Please share your opinion regarding Domestic Helpers. Ask any questions for relevant topics which affect domestic helper lifestyle abroad. Marriage problem, love affair problem, and any legal matters which affect family life...Just click on "NO COMMENT/COMMENTS" to p...

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New Domestic Helper Requirements for Abroad

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There is new REQUIREMENTS FOR DOMESTIC HELPERS TO GO ABROAD. This requirements will standardize the qualification of those who aspiring to work as Domestic Helper abroad. This will uplift the quality and help them for better salary.These are;1. TESDA trainingThis is not a new requirements for OCW's(overseas contract workers, these are skilled workers. Like; welders,canpenters,laborer,electricians,...

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Sunday, June 5, 2011

REQUISITE OF MARRIAGE in the Philippines

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Under Article 1. of this code state the legal requisite of marriage. Which is;Marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman enter into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life.Summary:1. Marriage is a "Special" contract.2. It is a "Permanent" union3. A union is "between a man and a woman".4. The union must be "enter into in accordance with...

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Saturday, June 4, 2011

Foreign male engage to a married domestic helper

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I don't know why most foreign male, did not investigate if the Filipina Domestic Helper they engage with is married or not?These foreign male that engage into a relationship with those Filipina Domestic Helper in Singapore, which is married don't think about family values. But they only think to have sexual relationship to those married domestic helper.We don't blame those foreign male. Because those...

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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Singapore Domestic Helper Expose

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According to my reliable source. The Ministry of Manpower in Singapore, required every Filipina Domestic Helper to have a regular HIV and pregnancy check up...every six months.I wonder why those Domestic Helper, need pregnancy and HIV check up. The source said that many Domestic Helper are involve in prostitution even if they work as Domestic Helper and work part time as prostitute and or having an...

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Monday, May 30, 2011

Foreign male cause of Filipino Family to be broken home

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One of the reason for Filipino Family to be broken home is the involvement of Foreign male. Many Filipina Domestic Helper mostly in Singapore...have intimate relationship with foreigners even if they have husband in the Philippines.Most of the Filipina Domestic Helper in Singapore are prone to an intimate relationship to foreign male. Believing that they will get financial stability that foreign male...

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Cause of Filipino family to be broken home

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One of the reason behind broken families of Filipino, is working abroad.There's a lot of husband and wife being separated. Because of lack of discipline between husband and wife that is working abroad.Instead of concentrating on their works and family. They concentrate to find someone that filled their hungry with flesh. Married men, did not think that they have a family. When they are intimately...

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Friday, May 27, 2011

Cause of broken home

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There are many cause of broken home or broken family which affect the behavior of the kids. Broken home is not an easy part of every children that being a victim on this particular misunderstanding between husband and wife.I listed some of my observation that causes families of broken home. This is reality that families of the world should be avoided and makes the family happy together.1. Miscommunication...

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Monday, April 11, 2011

Domestic Helper Work Abroad

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This about the jobs of Domestic Helper Abroad. It really hard to think that their works is very difficult but because of their choice of work. They even don't mind how hard it is...because they give strength by their family.They are cleaning the house of their employer, the kitchen, comfort room, bath room and all the corners of the house.Other's are caring babies and kids of their employers, caring...

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Domestic Helper Problem Abroad

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There are many problems of Filipina Domestic Helper Abroad, that never noted by the Philippine government.There are many complains in different consular office all over the world. But much of the embassy officials seems to in favor with those employer that abused them.Embassy officials really useless in handling many cases of Filipino Domestic Helpers. Why Are they employed in that position if they...

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Thursday, April 7, 2011

See if this is your wife abroad

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Domestic Helper in different countries will have various walks of life, on their off day. These are the following:DH number 1 - playing card Tong-it (playing card) - is one of the activities of some domestic helper abroad to amuse themselves. This is good to please themselves to avoid being homesick and miss their family.DH number 2 - Going to recreational activities Other DH are in the place...

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Wednesday, April 6, 2011

My wife is prosti in Singapore

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FACE TO FACEI watch one of the TV program telecast by TV5 a TV channel network located in Novaliches, Quezon City.This TV program is hosted by Amy Perez, a well known showbiz personalities.They talk about married life and family. Where the husband accused his wife cheated him. The serious things is that accused his wife being a prostitute in Singapore.Siblings are hated to their Mother. This is due...

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DH Love story and disappointment (no divorce)

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There are many friends online being a domestic helper from different countries. They tell some of their love stories and ask with my opinion regarding issues involving love affairs...Some of them shared their love life abroad. There is a domestic helper that I chatted online. She tell me something about her relationship into a person she loves.She is 46 years old and still single. She tell me that...

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Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Domestic Helper in Saudi Arabia

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This is a real story of one of the Domestic Helper in Saudi Arabia. I don't want to mention the name of the DH to protect her privacy...She have five (5) children and all of them are already old. She and her husband agree to go abroad for the betterment of the family and for the children to continue their education in high school and college.But going to abroad did not make good to her family. She...

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Sunday, April 3, 2011

Video Scandal Singapore profiles

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This video is courtesy of youtube and aljazeera.This is a documentary files of Aljazeera, where the truth about Singapore Sex trade. There are many foreign sex workers which according to reliable source. They coming from different places like China, Indonesia, Thailand, Vietnam and Most of All Philippines...The case of those Filipina Sex Workers is something different. There are humors that most of...

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